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		<title>Help for Minor Attraction</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Dr. Jennifer Weeks]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Jul 2022 00:22:30 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Based on science and clinical experience we know there are individuals who acknowledge an attraction to children, also known as minor attraction. </p>
<p>The post <a href="https://drjensrecoveryreadings.com/2022/07/10/help-for-minor-attraction/">Help for Minor Attraction</a> first appeared on <a href="https://drjensrecoveryreadings.com">Dr. Jen's Recovery Readings</a>.</p>]]></description>
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<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Based on science and clinical experience that there are individuals who acknowledge an attraction to children, also known as minor attraction.&nbsp;</p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading">What do we Really Know About Minor Attraction?</h2>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">The most recent science about minor attraction suggests that the age of the people we are attracted to is influenced by our brain structures and not a choice.&nbsp;Many people who have this attraction also have NOT engaged in any behavior with a child. Because they realize that acting on their attraction is never appropriate.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Where can those afflicted by these urges go for help? How do they ensure they never act on these urges or to process their feelings?</p>



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<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Preparing a sentencing report for a minor attracted person? Get the data you need, quickly, with <a href="https://mitigationaide.com?utm_source=djrr&amp;utm_medium=banner&amp;utm_campaign=map_research" target="_blank" rel="noopener" title="">Mitigation Aide</a>.</p>



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<li><a href="https://mitigationaide.com/characteristics-of-male-internet-only-child-pornography-offenders-2/?utm_source=djrr&amp;utm_medium=banner&amp;utm_campaign=map_research" target="_blank" rel="noopener" title="">Characteristics of Male Internet Only Child Pornography Offenders</a></li>



<li><a href="https://mitigationaide.com/comparing-child-pornography-offenders-to-child-contact-offenders-whats-the-difference/?utm_source=djrr&amp;utm_medium=banner&amp;utm_campaign=map_research" target="_blank" rel="noopener" title="">Comparing Child Pornography Offenders to Child Contact Offenders: What&#8217;s the Difference?</a></li>



<li><a href="https://mitigationaide.com/updated-review-of-online-child-pornography-offender-research/?utm_source=djrr&amp;utm_medium=banner&amp;utm_campaign=map_research" target="_blank" rel="noopener" title="">Updated Review of Online Child Pornography Offender Research</a></li>
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<h2 class="wp-block-heading">Where can they go?</h2>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Most of the time they do not seek help for fear of what may happen if they disclose this attraction.&nbsp;Because the fear of stigmatization is a real and justified fear.&nbsp;</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Many therapists are not trained to help process this form of sexuality. And, worse yet, many refuse to do so.&nbsp;</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">There have been a few scientific studies of therapists. These studies have found that they hold the same stigma against pedophilia as the general public.&nbsp;So much for non-judgmental!</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Where might someone go for treatment who wants to process their minor attraction?&nbsp;While there are therapists out there who are trained to help people process this attraction, these resources are few and far between.</p>



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<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Learn more about Primary Prevention and its benefits in these articles:</p>



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<li><a href="https://drjensrecoveryreadings.com/2023/02/24/how-to-do-primary-prevention-and-more/" target="_blank" rel="noopener" title="">How to do Primary Prevention and More</a></li>



<li><a href="https://drjensrecoveryreadings.com/2022/07/10/help-for-minor-attraction/" target="_blank" rel="noopener" title="">Help for Minor Attraction</a></li>



<li><a href="https://drjensrecoveryreadings.com/2022/06/24/csam-on-the-dark-web/" target="_blank" rel="noopener" title="">Research: CSAM on the Dark Web</a></li>



<li><a href="https://drjensrecoveryreadings.com/2022/01/28/you-are-not-a-monster-review-of-a-long-dark-shadow/" target="_blank" rel="noopener" title="">You Are Not a Monster: Review of a Long Dark Shadow</a></li>



<li><a href="https://drjensrecoveryreadings.com/?s=primary+prevention" target="_blank" rel="noopener" title="">Search: Primary Prevention on Dr. Jen&#8217;s Recovery Readings</a></li>
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<h2 class="wp-block-heading">Enter: Troubled Desire</h2>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Doctors at The Institute of Sexology and Sexual Medicine at Charite-Universitatsmedzin Berlin created <a href="https://www.troubled-desire.com/en/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Troubled Desire</a> specifically for this purpose. The website provides an anonymous online self-management program for individuals who experience an attraction to children.&nbsp;The University acknowledged that there was a great need for services for individuals who could not find a suitable therapist near them.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">The University is practicing Primary Prevention. By providing resources and support for individuals who are attracted to children who have not offended. This means helping people not offend against children in the first place.&nbsp;</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Unfortunately, the normal state of affairs is that we engage in secondary prevention. Therefore we help someone not offend AGAIN.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Know someone struggling with minor attraction? I suggest they check out the free, anonymous online course from <a href="https://www.troubled-desire.com/en/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Troubled Desire</a>.&nbsp;</p>



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<p class="has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph">Have you found yourself in legal trouble due to your sexual behavior? Seek assistance before the court mandates it, with <a href="https://sexualaddictiontreatmentservices.com/how-can-we-help/cybersex-offending-and-sex-offending/?utm_source=djrr&amp;utm_medium=banner&amp;utm_campaign=legal_trouble" target="_blank" rel="noopener" title="">Sexual Addiction Treatment Services</a>.</p>
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<p class="has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph">Do you feel your sexual behavior, or that of someone you love, is out of control? Then you should <a href="https://sexualaddictiontreatmentservices.com/how-can-we-help/out-of-control-sexual-behavior-and-sexual-addiction/?utm_source=djrr&amp;utm_medium=banner&amp;utm_campaign=oocsb_banner" target="_blank" rel="noopener" title="">consult with a professional</a>.</p>
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<p class="has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph">Are you looking for more reputable data-backed information on sexual addiction? The <a href="https://mitigationaide.com/">Mitigation Aide Research Archive</a> is an excellent source for executive summaries of research studies.</p>
</div></div><p>The post <a href="https://drjensrecoveryreadings.com/2022/07/10/help-for-minor-attraction/">Help for Minor Attraction</a> first appeared on <a href="https://drjensrecoveryreadings.com">Dr. Jen's Recovery Readings</a>.</p>]]></content:encoded>
					
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